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MEET STEPHANIE

Trauma Therapist in Sierra Madre, CA

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You walked into a therapist's office once — maybe more than once — and spent the whole session managing their reaction instead of your own. You chose your words carefully. You softened the parts that felt too complicated to explain. You left feeling more alone than when you arrived.

That's not what therapy is supposed to feel like. And it's not what it feels like here.

I'm Stephanie — a trauma therapist in Sierra Madre who works with people who are done shrinking themselves just to feel safe. You don't have to translate yourself here.

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I’VE BEEN THERE…

I used to believe my worth came from following all the rules and being the "good" girl. I was taught that there is value in being the one who never said no, or the one who kept quiet even when something felt wrong — especially when the people in charge told me what I felt wasn't real, or wasn't allowed.

I know what it's like to sit with a version of yourself that you've never shown anyone. To smile through environments that weren't built for you. To perform “okay” so convincingly that even you started to believe it.

Here's what changed: I started listening to the quiet voice inside me instead of ignoring it like I had been doing for so long. Over time, I realized my body wasn't the enemy, my needs weren't too much, and I didn't have to live in fear of disappointing others. That shift changed everything for me, and now I help my clients do the same. Together, we'll navigate the messiness, the uncertainty, and the confusion — not just to help you feel better, but to help you come home to yourself.

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⟡ Maybe you've been told — by a church, a family, a community — that who you are is something that needs to be fixed. And some part of you is still waiting to find out if that's true.

⟡ Maybe saying no still feels dangerous. Not just uncomfortable — dangerous. Like the people whose love you need the most might finally have the reason they were looking for to leave.

If that lands somewhere familiar, you're in the right place. Not because I have a formula for fixing it — but because I've spent years helping people untangle what they were taught from what they actually know to be true about themselves. Healing here doesn't come from performing or pretending. It comes from finally having a space where you don't have to.

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My Values as a Therapist

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    AUTHENTICITY

    Being real — with yourself and with me. No performance required here.

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    INCLUSIVITY

    Every part of who you are belongs in this room. Your identity, your history, your complexity — all of it.

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    CURIOSITY

    We don't rush to fix or explain. We slow down and get genuinely curious about what's underneath.

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    COLLABORATION

    You're not a passive recipient of therapy. We figure this out together, at a pace that works for you.

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    DIGNITY

    You have inherent worth — not because of what you've achieved, how you've behaved, or who approves of you. Just because.

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    VULNERABILITY

    The bravest thing you can do is let yourself be truly known. This is a space built for exactly that.

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I am a wife, friend, eldest daughter, cat mom, serial hobbyist, and lover of trinkets. I like to spend my free time crafting, making art, going to hockey games, watching reality TV, or playing cozy video games. I’m also an ex-vangelical with lived experience of both relational and religious trauma.

People have been trusting me with their stories for as long as I can remember. I've always been the one people come to — the listener, the keeper of secrets that couldn't be said out loud anywhere else. That part of me didn't become a therapist. It always was one.

When I was in the third grade, school staff nominated me to be a “peer mediator”. My family jokes that this is when I was destined for a life in the field of psychology. I love being a therapist, and look forward to working together!

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  • Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology: Marriage and Family Therapy

    California: Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist #140513

    Utah: Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist #14216343-3902

  • EMDR Training 1 & 2: Institute for Creative Mindfulness

    EMDR For Spiritual Abuse: Institute for Creative Mindfulness

    Reclamation as Clinical Intervention: Reclamation Collective

    Spiritual Abuse Recognition and Recovery: Reclamation Collective

    Religious Trauma, Spiritual Abuse and Cult Recovery: Treating the Trauma Caused by Adverse Religious Experiences: Pesi

    Gender Affirming Letter Writing: No More Gatekeeping

Services Offered

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Ready to stop performing and start feeling like yourself?

You've probably spent a long time figuring out how to get by — how to stay small enough, agreeable enough, safe enough. That took real skill. And it also cost you something.

If you're ready to find out what it feels like to be in a room where none of that is required of you, I'd be honored to be that room.

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